Sunday, May 20, 2012

Danny's Surgery

Now that school's out and I'm not coming undone at the seams, I thought I'd try to get this blog restarted/caught up. I figured I'd start with Danny's surgery since that was kind of a big deal this last month.

As you probably remember, but may have forgot, Senor Reginald Snugglebottoms the Third was born with twelve fingers, the extras being additional thumbs on each hand. We met with a surgeon for a consult back in December and established that the thumbs would have to wait until he was seven months old. So April 5, we packed ourselves off to the Children's Hospital in Mesa.




Getting ready for the surgery was quite the hassle. Referrals back and forth, trying to get x-rays of his hands from the necessary angles, (if you think x-raying a seven-month-old's hands would be tricky, you are correct.), making sure the x-rays and appointments and insurance all lined up. It really takes a lot of work, nothing gets done without you doing it. You think they would send to x-rays to the requesting doctor, but nope, you've got to pick them up. I don't know how parents who have kids with chronic conditions do it, because it is a full-time job coordinating care.


His surgery was scheduled for 11:15, but we had to arrive 2 hrs early. When we made it to the surgical floor, it had bee pushed back to 11:45. Then the surgeries ahead of him ran long. By the time he made it in, it was about 2 pm. Danny was fairly cranky, having not eating since 8:30 am. The floor has a bunch of push-cars that he really liked, so Paul pushed him around the floor for probably an hour. Ugh, waiting was terrible. He was crying and I knew he was hungry and he would just look up like "we've been doing this every day for seven months, why are you not feeding me?!!" Finally around 1:30, people starting coming in. Yes, we're here for thumb surgery. Both hands. He has not eaten since 7:30 am. Breastmilk. No allergies. The same answers over and over, for the surgical nurse, surgeon, and anesthesiologist. Finally, about 2 pm, the surgical nurse whisked him up in his arms and he and the anesthesiologist carried him back into the surgical area. Danny didn't even look back or cry, he was too excited to see new people and things.



We went across the street to the Village Inn for lunch, which we both considered to be a million times less anxious and miserable than being in the waiting room. We came back after an hour, even though the surgery was expected to take two. It was good that we did because it finished early after only ninety minutes. We were taken back into the recovery room where a nurse was holding a very groggy baby, who was greedily downing Pedialyte. He had already downed an entire bottle's worth by the time we got there and would take another two ounces of Pedialyte and breastmilk before he was done. He was very mad about the whole thing--the bandages (he managed to get one off IN THE RECOVERY ROOM), being hungry, and especially being groggy. He was very well-drugged for the entire experience, but he hated being disoriented and generally out of it.



My mother came down to help, which was really nice. Danny bounced back sooooooo fast once the painkillers were stopped, so the help wasn't strictly necessary, but it was nice to have some backup and not to have to try to take him to the sitter's immediately afterwards or miss any more class. (I missed a LOT between all of the appointments, consults, and the actual surgery.)


Here's his thumbs about a week after the surgery. It'll have been eight weeks tomorrow since the surgery and he goes in for what I hope is his final visit with the surgeon. His left thumb appears to have completely healed, but the right is still healing internally.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

The Great Holiday Write-Up

Well, I totally blew by Thanksgiving, but I'll try to cram the past two months into a reasonable number of points.

1) Danny T is continues to be awesome. Sometime in mid-November, he drops to from four night feedings to two. I can now get four hours of continuous sleep and a bit of a supply built up so no more formula even when I'm gone. Yay!

2) We all fly home to Utah for Thanksgiving so Danny T can be blessed there. Flying is not nearly as scary for me now that my anxiety is better controlled. It is still not something I'd do for fun, though. We have a lovely time visiting with lots and lots of family members, which is why I decided to bless him in Utah in the first place. Special thanks and mention to all of those who traveled from Montana and Monticello for the occasion.

3) I finish the semester. I enjoyed my classes and got a 4.0. (This is less impressive in grad school, but still impressive when you give birth during the semester.)

4) Nick comes to visit the week before Christmas. He and Danny T have really taken to each other, so it was nice that he was able to come for so long. It was also nice to have a third-party to switch off baby duties with, another adult to converse with (especially when Paul was at work), and a third person to play board games with. It's hard to play some games with just two.

5) A small part of my thesis that I presented back in 2010 at the Literature and Belief Conference is accepted for publication. Also, my review of "To Die and Not Decay" is published in Early Medieval China.

6) Christmas! It's way more fun with a kid. I'm pretty sure Danny T got his weight in toys. Which is extra impressive considering he's a big guy. We never really got to dinner, but we enjoyed snacking on the parts throughout the day.

7) Danny T gets his first real cold. He is not too miserable, but he is annoyed by us constantly wiping his nose and eyes. His little coughs are very cute, and not too frequent or wet. He has a doctor's appointment tomorrow anyway.

I'll try to put up a bunch of pictures later today, since I know that's what you're all interested in.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

2 Month Update

Well, it is slightly late, but technically he's not three months until next week, so it still counts. We're going to Utah for Thanksgiving and to bless him, so there should be more pictures and whatnot next week.

Anyway, here's his official two-month portrait.



And some cute shot I took.

Monday, September 26, 2011

One Month

Danny T is one month old tomorrow, so I thought I'd do a little photo timeline, cleverly posting more pictures and looking like I've been keeping track of these things.

Here's him right after he was born (seriously, like seconds).
Here's him at one day.
Here's him during the first two weeks.

Here's him at three weeks.
And here's him at one month. Look at how big he's gotten!